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"A family located in north London wants to find an remarkable and experienced instructor to support their youngest child on his first steps to becoming an English gentleman."

Upon seeing this post, you might easily skip the phrase "initial stages" as just a turn of phrase.

But, it may be the crucial aspect of this unique employment listing, as it attempts to hire a mentor for a infant.

Numerous of submissions have already been sent in since the anonymous family advertised their call for the £180k-a-year tutor, who must be "an exceptional individual".

During the past few weeks, the post has attracted attention across the media, with numerous wondering why?

Innovative Idea

Adam Caller, CEO and founder of an education consultancy, which is assisting the family in their hunt, said that notwithstanding early skepticism, he found the concept "forward-looking", and "progressive".

When he met the family, he mentioned they appreciated the unusual character of their request, and how young their son is.

However, they clarified that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to get a tutor, as they had waited until their elder sibling was five, and by that point "cultural bias had by then become established".

What exactly did the family indicate by "cultural bias"?

It's "comprehensive", the expert responded. "The way you eat, the way you speak".

He stated the firstborn had adopted "extremely delicate, body language" from the family, and had adopted their cultural ways. The family told Adam they did not want the same situation to repeat itself with their new baby.

The intention: To bring in a British tutor, who must speak with standard English accent, to influence the baby from day one.

Osmotic Learning

"A lot of the learning at the start here is somewhat acquired indirectly," said Adam.

It's through this osmosis that the family are expecting the child will adopt the UK customs they aim to cultivate.

He noted the tutor needed to be someone who studied at "the right kinds of schools – comparable categories of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The educator simply needs to be the appropriate candidate, they'll be performing things they aren't even aware they're doing, just naturally," he commented.

Expense Not a Factor

The family explained to Adam the chosen tutor should ideally also have familiarity of or interest in riding, skiing, creative fields and instrumental training so as to influence the child in a diverse set of interests.

Furthermore though, he explained the family wanted the tutor to register the child on a range of courses so the child would be "horseback riding and picking up an instrument by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's minds, guiding their son develop into a "UK sophisticate" will lead to success and provide access.

"Considering the rights and wrongs of that, because it's undoubtedly a status symbol," he adds.

However, in spite of all this guidance in "English culture", might the child adopt so-called cultural leaning from the globally influenced family he is raised by regardless?

"Absolutely", said Adam. "The parents understand this might not succeed, but they've merely embraced the view of, 'we should try and we should start as soon as we can', because the cost of it is not a concern," he stated.

Overly Optimistic

There are some in the tutoring industry who have those doubts.

Peter Cui, CEO and founder of Blue Education, who supplies private tutors, wrote that "the process of embracing two identities, or actually, discovering oneself, is something that must be experienced personally, not engineered."

He noted that he had emigrated from China to the Britain at the period of 7 years old, and had been brought up experiencing and practicing two backgrounds. He continued to learn at Cambridge University.

"The notion that an individual can function as a embodiment of Britishness, an individual who can possibly transfer the qualities of a English gentleman upon a 12-month-old child, strikes me as optimistic and unfeasible," he commented.

"In my experience, employing a typically English tutor from infancy will not necessarily produce the goal they hope for.

"I wasn't provided with such a figure, and however I have been lucky enough to live several of the opportunities they desire for their son."

He added: "The reality is, cultural identity can not be forced from the outside influences; it must be chosen, and it must be internally driven."

Purchasing UK Culture

Of course, Britishness is something Adam believes can be instructed – and marketed.

"In my view the situation that the global community views us in this light is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating